I’ve noticed in the last few years that schools are encouraging (if that’s the right word) Kris Kringles for gifts between the kids.
Not sure if this is good or bad really. Certainly easier if kids just give each cards but a few would always want to give a gift to special friends. Then there is the risk of hurting people if one gets a gift and another doesn’t so it can be hard to stop. I see both sides of that.
One child did one at school last week and the gift had a $10 to $20 limit – that’s a lot of money for kids I think, especially if it’s not for someone you know well so it could end up being $20 of nonsense or unwanted things. I also found it a big range – some kids will spend $9.99 and get a $21 gift, and so on, which is a bit unfair but could lead to disagreements and hassles in the playground.
Tonight, another child says she will be doing a KK too. A week of school left and they’re told it’s happening with details to be discussed tomorrow! So guess who’ll have to go shopping over this weekend – someone who had thought Xmas shopping finished because I don’t want to go within cooee of a shopping centre at this time of year!
SO am I the only one not enthused about school Kris Kringles this year?
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In theory the Kris Kringle gift exchanges are a nice and fun idea. But it can create challenges. Not everyone can afford for their child to buy one of the gifts for example. What is a child to do then? And as mentioned, if someone is left out in some way, then he or she will feel bad. And that is the last thing anyone wants to see especially at Christmas time.
I think a low budget Kris Kringle is better for kids – apart from what people can afford or expect, most kids have so much stuff that we don’t need to encourage more materialism in them. maybe a Kris Kringle based on home made items or a positive message would be nice?
In my previous school, everyone is required to participate in Kris Kringles. Even the high school students! Nothing too expensive, though. We were encouraged to make personalized gifts, but the downside is when you get a person who’s not that close to you. Nonetheless, it was one of the fun things during our annual Christmas party so I really miss it.
Glad you enjoyed that tradition, angeldrb – it can be a lot of fun if kept under control.
Sometimes it is easier to buy for a less close friend – there is less pressure and you aren’t hindered by thinking “hmm, I know he has that” and “Oh, he gave me that last year” and similar 🙂
Yes, it can actually be viewed that way. I’m more thinking along the lines of “I’m not sure what his interests are. What if he doesn’t like my gift?” 🙂
“What if he doesn’t like my gift?” I think shows that you care and want to give a gift someone will enjoy rather than just the first thing you can grab – this is a good thing 🙂
Sometimes the best gifts can come from the littlest things – what little detail do you know about the person? Maybe you remember a passing comment, have seen a sticker on his folder at school, noticed he likes wearing stripy socks or saw him break a pen in class yesterday – good presents don’t have to be about the big things!
Yes, paying attention to the small details can of great help. If I’m on the receiving end of that gift, I think I would be really touched that someone who’s not in my circle of friends know something about me. That gift can even start friendships! Not to mention that my close friends seem to overlook the small details about me because they’re looking at me wholly. But, acquaintances and people I don’t know well notice those little quirks in me because they see me in a totally different perspective than my friends do.
I hope you get some lovely thoughtful gift this coming Christmas, angeldrb 🙂
I wish the schools where I lived did this type of action. I know it would be a good thing, but here in the states they tend to discourage this type of gift giving.
WHy do you think it is discouraged, Waynefire? It may have its flaws but it is so much easier than trying to get a gift for everyone – or feeling guilty for missing someone.
I remember in elementary school we had something similar to this except it was called “Secret Santa”. Overall, I think it’s a pretty good concept for kids to learn how to give and not just be on the receiving end but it can bring issues depending on the parent’s financial health. Some people cannot afford extra bills especially around the holiday season. I think the schools should keep the gifts under five bucks, there’s some pretty cool toys at Walmart and the Dollar stores you just have to look! I love the concept of it though.
Yes, I know some people call it Secret Santa, too.